Author: stevek

  • You’ve Got the Enquiry — Now What?

    You have the enquiries, how do you win high value jobs, without discounting.

    Converting Enquiries into Signed Contracts: How to Win High-Value Jobs Without Discounting

    Last week, we looked at lead generation and why getting the right enquiry is far more important than simply getting lots of enquiries.

    Before that, we talked about pricing your contracting business properly and understanding what your work actually needs to earn.

    So, assuming you have done that work, you have identified the market you want to operate in, you have marketed yourself to that market and somebody now picks up the phone or sends you an email asking for a quotation.

    What happens next?

    This is where I think many contractors make selling much harder than it really needs to be.

    My son asked me a question when he was starting to develop his decorating business.

    “But I’m not a salesman.”

    My answer was quite simple.

    If you have identified the market you want to work in, developed your marketing strategy and put the right marketing tools around the business, you have already done a lot of the hard work.

    Now you have an enquiry from somebody who has shown an interest in what you do.

    You don’t suddenly need to become a salesman.

    You need to have a process.

    My son was never a great communicator unless the conversation was about something he liked.

    Yet today he goes into meetings thinking less about selling his business and more about understanding what the customer wants and offering them a solution and a high-quality service.

    He wins a lot more than he loses.

    And despite all my coaching, I don’t think he would say he has ever really learned formal objection-handling or closing techniques.

    Which probably proves my point.

    First, understand the enquiry

    It is very easy to get excited when a good-looking job lands in your inbox.

    But before you spend hours putting together a detailed quotation, stop and ask yourself a few questions.

    Who actually wants the work done and who is making the decision?

    What are they really looking for?

    And perhaps most importantly, why have they contacted you?

    Is it simply because they want the cheapest price?

    Or are they looking for somebody who can solve a particular problem?

    Perhaps they have already had a bad experience with another contractor, or maybe they need the work completed within a particular time-frame, or they need specialist knowledge or skills.

    Or maybe they simply want somebody they can trust to do the job properly and leave them with as little hassle as possible.

    These things matter.

    If you don’t understand what is important to the customer, you are really pricing in the dark.

    Remember why they contacted you

    This is where the work you have already done starts to pay off.

    If you have chosen your market properly, your marketing should already be giving the prospective customer some confidence in what you do.

    They may have looked at your website.

    They may have looked at previous projects.

    They may have seen photographs, qualifications, testimonials or examples of similar work.

    By the time you actually speak to them, they should already have some idea that you are capable of doing the job.

    That doesn’t mean you should assume you have won it.

    It means you now have an opportunity to understand exactly what they want and show them that you can deliver it.

    This is particularly important with higher-value work.

    If you have followed the pricing process we discussed previously, your price isn’t something you have just pulled out of the air.

    It is based on your labour, materials, overheads and the margin you need to make the business work.

    So don’t be frightened of your own price.

    The site visit is more than measuring up

    If you are going to visit the customer, don’t treat it simply as an errand to collect enough information to produce a price.

    It is part of the selling process, although I wouldn’t necessarily call it selling.

    Listen.

    Ask questions.

    Look at the job properly.

    If you see something that could cause a problem later, explain it.

    If there is a better way of doing something, explain why.

    If the customer has an expectation that isn’t realistic, explain that too.

    You are demonstrating that you understand what you are doing.

    That builds confidence.

    And confidence is important because when people are spending a significant amount of money, they aren’t simply buying materials and hours of labour.

    They are buying the confidence that the job will be done properly.

    Don’t just send a price

    One of the easiest ways to turn a quality job into a price comparison is to send an email saying:

    “Price for works as discussed: £12,500 + VAT.”

    What does the customer have to compare?

    The number.

    And once the number is all they have, you have made it very easy for somebody else to come in £500 cheaper.

    A good quotation should explain what the customer is actually getting.

    What work are you carrying out?

    What materials are you using?

    What standards are you working to?

    What is included?

    What isn’t included?

    How long do you expect the work to take?

    What does your service provide that somebody else may not?

    For a significant project, I would also talk the customer through the quotation rather than simply emailing it over and hoping they read it properly.

    Again, this isn’t about becoming a salesman.

    It is about making sure the customer understands what they are buying.

    And then somebody asks, “Can you do anything on the price?”

    Of course they do.

    We all ask for a discount, don’t we?

    It doesn’t necessarily mean they don’t want to give you the job.

    It certainly doesn’t mean you should immediately knock ten percent off your price.

    If you have priced the job properly, why would you?

    This is where I often tell my son and my clients to go back to what they have already discussed with the customer.

    If you have explained that you are using high-quality materials and allowing the right number of hours to achieve the finish they want, explain that again.

    If they genuinely need the price to come down, ask what they would be prepared to compromise on.

    For example, with my son’s decorating business, it might be possible to use a different paint manufacturer.

    But that alternative may give a slightly different finish or have different characteristics.

    That doesn’t mean the alternative is bad.

    It simply means there is a difference between what was originally specified and what they are now asking you to provide.

    The customer can then make an informed decision.

    And quite often, particularly on a quality project, they don’t actually want to compromise.

    They wanted the better finish in the first place.

    What they really wanted was to ask the question:

    “Can you do anything on the price?”

    There is nothing wrong with asking.

    There is also nothing wrong with explaining why your price is what it is.

    Following up isn’t being pushy

    Another area where contractors can lose work is simply by not following up.

    They send the quotation and then sit waiting for the phone to ring.

    Sometimes it will.

    Sometimes it won’t.

    People get busy. Projects get delayed. Partners need to discuss things. Businesses have to get approval.

    So, when you send a quotation, agree what happens next.

    You might simply say:

    “I’ll give you a call on Thursday afternoon once you’ve had a chance to look through everything. Is that OK?”

    Now you aren’t chasing them.

    You are doing exactly what you said you would do.

    And when you follow up, you don’t need a clever sales technique.

    Ask if they have any questions.

    Ask if there is anything they would like explained.

    Ask whether anything has changed.

    You are continuing the conversation.

    Sometimes you won’t get the job — and that’s OK

    If you have done everything properly, priced the work correctly and followed the process, you should have given yourself the best possible opportunity to win the work.

    But you won’t win every job.

    And I don’t think you should want to.

    Sometimes another contractor will be a better fit for the customer.

    Perhaps they have a particular skill you don’t have.

    Perhaps they are better suited to the type of project.

    Perhaps the customer simply prefers them.

    If they are a good-quality competitor who can genuinely deliver what the customer wants, then that’s business.

    What I don’t want to see is a contractor winning a high-value job simply because they discounted themselves into a position where the job is no longer properly profitable.

    Because then you haven’t really won.

    You’ve bought yourself a job.

    And there is a big difference.

    So what have the last three weeks actually been about?

    You might reasonably ask what these last three Business After 60 conversations have really been about.

    After all, is this really a conversation about running a business if you happen to be in your sixties?

    I think it is.

    Being 60, 65 or 70 doesn’t suddenly mean that the knowledge you have built up over decades becomes irrelevant.

    Quite the opposite.

    If you have spent many years running businesses, managing people, dealing with customers, making mistakes, getting things wrong and occasionally getting things right, you have learned something along the way.

    You may not know everything.

    I certainly don’t.

    But I know how to run a contracting business.

    I know what has worked for me, what hasn’t, and what I believe gives a contracting business the best chance of being successful.

    And this isn’t just theory.

    I’m currently using this exact sort of framework with an electrical contractor who is preparing to pass his business across to a younger partner.

    His partner is already doing much of the compliance and testing work and knows most of the existing customers.

    Yet, like my son, he has said the familiar words:

    “I’m not a salesman.”

    And he isn’t particularly confident about taking over the running of the business.

    But does he really need to suddenly become a salesman or a marketing expert?

    He already knows the customers.

    He already knows the work.

    He already understands the technical side of the business.

    What he needs is a framework that brings all those things together and gives him a way of approaching the commercial side of the business with confidence.

    That’s really what these conversations are about.

    The framework won’t be exactly the same for every business.

    A contractor is different from a manufacturer producing a product. A five-person electrical contractor is different from a fifty-person engineering business.

    But the principles of understanding your market, knowing your numbers, generating the right enquiries, understanding your customer and having a process for turning an opportunity into profitable work are surprisingly transferable.

    And that is where I am taking these conversations.

    Over time, I’m going to bring the ideas together into practical frameworks — one aimed at contracting businesses and another for small manufacturers producing and selling their own products.

    Not a textbook.

    Not a complicated consultancy programme.

    Just a framework built around the things I have learned over many years of actually running and working with businesses.

    The bottom line

    You don’t necessarily need to become a great salesman.

    You need to become very good at what you do, know who you want to do it for, understand what your customers need, price your work properly and have a process that allows you to demonstrate all of that.

    If you do those things, winning the order should become the natural next step.

    And if you lose the job to a quality competitor who was simply a better fit, that’s OK too.

    You move on to the next enquiry.

    Frequently Asked Questions

    Do I need to be a good salesman to win more contracting work?

    Not necessarily. If you understand your market, know your service and have a clear process for handling enquiries, much of what people call “selling” is simply having a good conversation with a potential customer and understanding what they need.

    Should I discount my price if a customer says it is too expensive?

    Not automatically. If your price is based on the actual cost of delivering the work and the profit your business needs, first find out what the customer is concerned about. If necessary, look at whether the specification or scope can be changed rather than simply removing money from your margin.

    What should I do if I lose a quotation?

    Find out why if you can, learn from it and move on. You won’t win every job, and sometimes another contractor will simply be a better fit. The important thing is not to win work at any cost.

    How important is follow-up after sending a quotation?

    Very. A professional follow-up isn’t about pressuring someone into buying. It is about making sure they have understood your proposal, answering questions and finding out whether anything has changed.

    Can the same approach work for manufacturers?

    The details will obviously be different, particularly where you are selling a product rather than a contracting service, but many of the underlying principles are similar: identify the right market, understand the customer, communicate your value, price correctly and have a process for converting genuine opportunities into profitable orders.

    Continue the conversation

    If you run a contracting business, manufacture a product or simply have years of business experience behind you, I’d be interested in your thoughts.

    What has worked for you?

    What hasn’t?

    And have you ever found yourself saying, “I’m not a salesman,” only to discover that you were actually quite good at talking to customers when you stopped thinking of it as selling?

    That’s what these Business After 60 conversations are about — sharing practical experience and turning some of those lessons into frameworks that other business owners can actually use.

    Read the next Business After 60 conversation, or explore the wider Business After 60 series.

  • How to Market Your Contracting Business to Win the Right Work

    Business conversation - How to win the right type of work for your contracting business.

    Why Chasing Every Lead Can Cost You Money — And How to Attract Clients Who Value What You Do

    🟦 Business After 60 Conversation

    Last week, we looked at the fundamentals of getting your pricing right without leaving money on the table.

    We discussed understanding your material costs, accounting for your true labour rate, setting your profit margins deliberately, and recovering your overheads.

    Included in those business overheads, of course, is a budget for marketing.

    Sometimes it can be confusing to differentiate these costs. For example, your website — which is your digital shop window to the world — software packages, and lead generation packages can feel like general admin, but they are very much part of your marketing machine.

    I like to break it down into a simple reality:

    The next question is how you generate the right leads for your contracting business — because more enquiries aren’t necessarily better enquiries.

    You also need a business capable of attracting and delivering the work that makes that pricing possible.

    1. Understand Your Market (And Who You Are Actually Serving)

    First of all, you have to understand your market and the specific clients within it.

    If we take electrical contractors as an example, are you operating within the domestic homeowner market? The volume house building market? Or the commercial market, which covers a whole spectrum of environments like data centres, office blocks, hotels, and hospitals? Or perhaps industrial clients, including factories, pumping stations, and water treatment works?

    Very often, our businesses are not a “one-size-fits-all” operation.

    Yet, I frequently hear contractor owners say:

    “We need to diversify our business because there’s not enough money in the sector we’re operating in.”

    What usually happens next? They spend a huge amount of money on shiny new equipment, only to discover their staff aren’t adequately trained or experienced enough to deliver that type of work profitably.

    I have seen many examples of this over my years in business advisory and contracting, but one that sticks closest to home involves my son.

    2. A Father-and-Son Conversation on Lead Generation

    A few years ago, I helped my son start his painting and decorating contracting business. After a couple of years of hard graft, he walked up to me one afternoon looking completely deflated.

    “Dad, I’m packing it in,” he said. “I’m not making any money. I’m going back to work for my old boss on a day rate.”

    At the time, he was employing two painters. He was signed up to directories like Checkatrade, buying online lead packages, and trying all sorts of digital shortcuts.

    “I’m losing money on every job,” he told me.

    “Don’t be hasty,” I replied. “Why didn’t you come to me earlier?”

    “I wanted to do it on my own without running to you.”

    What followed was a long father-and-son conversation — the kind of frank, honest chat that happens often in family businesses. (It’s a subject close to my heart, and probably a book I must get around to writing one day!)

    Once we delved properly into the numbers and his process, two big things became immediately apparent:

    1. His prices were too low while his overheads were rising.
    2. He is a perfectionist. He insisted on using top-end brushes, high-quality rollers, and premium trade paint.

    Here was the paradox: initially, his prices had been higher to reflect that quality. But when the phone didn’t ring enough, he panicked. He started buying cheap, generic online leads.

    To win work from those price-sensitive lead sources, he lowered his hourly rate and compromised on his materials to match the customer expectations those leads were creating.

    He had fallen into a classic trap: He was allowing his lead source to dictate his business model.

    3. Don’t Let Cheap Leads Dictate Your Contracting Business

    Look at how that cycle unfolded:

    • He started with quality materials, high standards, skilled painters, a perfectionist approach, and pricing that reflected all of it.
    • The enquiries coming in through his online lead platforms didn’t support that level of service.
    • So, he changed his entire business model to chase the enquiries.

    He was working harder, carrying more overhead and compromising the standards that had originally differentiated his business.

    The answer seemed obvious: find customers who valued the quality of work and the finish he was trying to provide.

    But that raised a much bigger question: what sort of business was he actually trying to build — and was the rest of the business equipped to support it?

    4. Are You Equipped for the Work You Want to Attract?

    “High-end customers” is a phrase thrown around a lot in marketing.

    But let’s be clear: it doesn’t mean you can charge more money simply because a client has a larger house or a bigger budget.

    It means finding customers who value what you are genuinely good at — and ensuring your business is fully equipped to deliver it.

    When my son and I looked closely at his setup, we had to ask hard questions:

    • Were his employed painters trained to the standard required for detailed, high-spec properties?
    • Did he have the right dustless sanding systems, specialist spraying gear, ladders, and scaffolding required to take on larger, complex projects safely and efficiently?

    Marketing isn’t just about getting someone to call you. It is about aligning three things:

    I’ve seen businesses spend a fortune trying to enter a new market without first asking a fairly basic question: are we actually equipped to do this work profitably?

    A domestic electrical contractor can’t necessarily decide tomorrow that they’re going after major industrial work because the contracts are bigger.

    The skills, certification, equipment, project management, health and safety requirements and experience may all be different.

    1. Your Core Expertise: What you do exceptionally well.
    2. Your Operational Capability: The equipment, training, and systems you have in place.
    3. Your Target Client: The people who actively need that specific level of quality and are willing to pay for it.

    If any one of those three is out of alignment, your marketing will feel like an uphill battle.

    5. Building Your Contractor Marketing Strategy

    So how do you start attracting those ideal clients without spending thousands of pounds every month on aggressive agency retainers or cheap lead-gen sites?

    Treat Your Website as Your Shop Window

    Your website shouldn’t just be an online business card that says “We do electrical work” or “We do painting.” It needs to demonstrate your standards, show off your completed projects, and explain how you work. High-value clients look for professionalism, reliability, and clear evidence of past work.

    (If you’re unsure whether your current site is doing its job, take a look at our downloadable guide: How to Identify the Right Website Builder for Your Business Checklist).

    Build an Organic Relationship (The Power of an Email List)

    One of the most useful long-term assets a contracting business can build is its own audience.

    Writing a blog or newsletter, sharing practical advice — such as “What to look for when planning a full house rewire” or “How to prepare commercial premises for annual testing” — you establish trust before you ever submit a quote.

    Encouraging prospective clients and local commercial contacts to join a simple email list builds an ongoing pipeline of work that you own outright, rather than renting from a third-party lead broker.

    One Size Doesn’t Fit Every Business

    There is an important point I don’t want to lose here.

    I’m not suggesting that lead-generation platforms, software or automated marketing systems are inherently bad. Far from it.

    There are businesses I have worked with where I would recommend particular lead-generation systems or specialist companies because they fit the type of business, the market and the objectives they are trying to achieve. Some of these systems can work extremely well.

    In fact, there is a slightly ironic example in my own family.

    My niece’s son is starting his own plumbing business. When he asked me what I thought he should do to start generating work, one of the things I told him was to look at platforms such as Checkatrade or TrustATrader.

    Why would I recommend something that contributed to the problems my son experienced?

    Because the circumstances are different.

    A new plumbing business needs to get known, generate enquiries and build a customer base. A lead-generation platform can be a perfectly sensible part of that process.

    My son’s problem wasn’t simply that he used a lead-generation platform. His problem was that the type of work it was generating was pulling his business in a direction that didn’t match the business he wanted to build.

    That is an important distinction.

    The tool isn’t the strategy.

    A lead-generation platform, an email system, a website, social media or a referral network are all tools. Whether they are right for you depends on what you are trying to achieve, the market you operate in and whether your business is equipped to deliver the work those enquiries generate.

    There really are many ways to skin a cat, as the old saying goes.

    The trick is choosing the method that fits your business, rather than changing your business to fit the method.

    Next Week: Converting Enquiries into Signed Contracts

    Generating the right enquiries is one thing. Turning those enquiries into profitable, signed contracts without getting dragged into a bidding war is another.

    Next week, we’ll look at the sales and conversion process for contractors — how to present your quotes, follow up professionally, and win the jobs you actually want.

    And Finally…

    Marketing your contracting business isn’t about shouting louder or buying more leads. It’s about clarity.

    Stop letting cheap lead platforms tell you what your business is worth.

    Identify the market sector where your skills actually shine, make sure your team and equipment are equipped to handle it, and build a simple digital shop window that speaks directly to the customers who value quality.

    When your marketing matches your capability and the business you actually want to build, you have a much better chance of attracting the right sort of work rather than simply more work.

    FAQs

    How do I generate leads for a contracting business?

    There isn’t one method that works for every contractor. The right approach depends on your market, pricing, capabilities and the type of business you want to build. Options include lead-generation platforms, your own website, referrals, networking, useful website content and an email list.

    How do I attract the right customers for my contracting business?

    Start by identifying the type of work your business is genuinely equipped to deliver profitably. Your website, case studies, previous work, qualifications and marketing should then make it clear who you work with and the standards you provide.

    Are lead-generation websites worth it for contractors?

    They can be. Lead-generation platforms can be particularly useful for businesses that need to establish themselves and generate enquiries. The important question is whether the type of work generated fits your pricing, capabilities and business model. That’s the distinction illustrated by the two family examples in this conversation.

    Should a contracting business have an email list?

    Building your own email list can create a useful long-term marketing asset. Sharing practical information through a website, blog or newsletter can help you stay in contact with potential customers, previous clients and commercial contacts rather than relying entirely on third-party lead sources.

  • The Evolution of European Travel: Why Vienna Still Holds the Magic

    Weekend Conversation - Why Vienna will always hold magical memories.
    The ever changing skyline Vienna

    Welcome to this week’s weekend conversation.

    After a busy week in the North West of England—and with an equally packed schedule ahead, including business trips to Ireland and Switzerland before we head off for a break—I’ve been reflecting on just how much travel has changed over the last thirty years.

    It hit home recently when I was thinking about the early days of short breaks. Today, a long weekend in Europe is second nature for a growing number of people in our circle. The same goes for business travel; so many clients spend their working lives importing and exporting materials across the globe, with regular trips to Eastern Europe, the Middle East, or China treated as routine.

    My thoughts drifted back to when Sharon and I first met. We were both divorced with young families, and holidays in those days were strictly bounded by company allowances—usually four weeks. I had recently started a new company, so holidays were even more restricted, with several days forced over Christmas, Easter, or set school holiday blocks.

    We hadn’t been seeing each other long. I was doing particularly well financially at the time and, if I’m honest, I was keen to show off a little. Having just returned from a work trip to Germany, I spontaneously booked four nights in Vienna without telling her. Surprises are a great idea, right?

    Communication was a bit different back in the late nineties. We had mobile phones, but we weren’t tethered to them the way we are now. Landlines were still the primary connection, and messages had a habit of getting lost or mangled in transit.

    What started as a grand romantic gesture quickly turned into a logistical test:

    • The School Run & Family Logistics: It was early December and strictly term time. Dropping the news that we were heading off from Friday to Tuesday raised plenty of eyebrows. “What do you mean you’re leaving Friday? It’s not holiday time! You had yours in August and you’ve got a week off at Christmas—what’s going on?”

    Eventually, childcare was sorted, but I was already starting to wonder if my “spontaneous surprise” was a terrible mistake. When I drove from Southampton to Camden to pick Sharon up, I was greeted by the single largest suitcase I had ever seen.

    “You do realise we’re only staying four nights?” I asked.

    “I know,” she replied. “It feels like a bit of a waste of time—it’s freezing over there! Couldn’t we have saved our money and gone somewhere warm in August with all the kids?”

    Tired after driving from Southampton to London and then on to Gatwick, I kept asking myself if the effort was going to be worth it.

    It was.

    Vienna was spectacular. From our hotel—which felt impossibly modern at the time—to the breathtaking contrast of the city’s historical architecture, it turned into a weekend of dreams. We skated on the outdoor ice rink, ducked into tiny local pubs with live music spilling into the streets, took a horse-drawn carriage tour through the historic centre, and soaked in the culture.

    It was magnificent. Even with the inevitable changes every city undergoes over the decades, Vienna remains my absolute favourite European city to this day—and a reminder that sometimes, the hardest trips to organise yield the best memories.

    Vienna Then and Now

    Over the years since that first visit, Vienna has undergone a massive transformation. Since 1998, it has morphed from a somewhat strangely beautiful, ageing post-Cold War city into a vibrant, booming, “modern European city”.

    While it has proudly maintained its iconic imperial charm, classical music heritage, and strict coffeehouse culture, the physical and cultural landscape of the city has changed dramatically.

    What Has Changed

    Architecture, regeneration, transport, dining and the increasingly international feel of the city have all changed considerably.

    Vienna has changed considerably since our first visit. At the start of 2026, the city had just over two million residents, continuing the growth that has transformed the feel of the city since the late 1990s.

    Vienna was still shaking off its post-Iron Curtain identity. For decades, like a lot of European cities, it had an ageing, shrinking population with a reputation for being slightly grey, traditional, and resistant to change.

    The city now has a much more youthful and culturally diverse feel.

    The city’s famous MuseumsQuartier (MQ) was just beginning its transformation. Entire swathes of the city—like the old southern train stations and the areas along the Danube—were underutilised brownfield sites.

    High-rises were nearly non-existent; the Andromeda-Tower was only just being completed in 1998.

    Vienna’s skyline has since shot upward with hyper-modern architectural marvels like the ultra-slim DC Tower. The massive MuseumsQuartier opened in 2001 and is now one of the largest art and culture zones in the world.

    Cars still heavily dominated major shopping thoroughfares and neighbourhood centres. Cycling was mostly recreational rather than a primary mode of commuting.

    There are now extensive cycle routes, while the city’s subways and trams are modern and efficient.

    Dining out was very traditional, restaurants were formal, strictly indoor, and often filled with cigarette smoke.

    Thanks to smoking bans and rising global temperatures, Vienna’s food scene has spilled outdoors. Sidewalk cafes, pop-up bars along the Danube Canal, and trendy international restaurants line the city.

    The historic centre, coffeehouse culture, architecture, music and the character that keeps bringing visitors back. Vienna’s coffeehouse culture remains officially recognised as intangible cultural heritage, and the city’s own tourism material still describes the coffeehouse as a place to meet, read, talk and simply spend time.

    FAQs

    Is Vienna a good destination for a European city break?
    Vienna works particularly well for a short European break because its historic centre, museums, cafés, restaurants and major sights can be explored without needing a long itinerary.

    What is Vienna famous for?
    Vienna is particularly known for its imperial architecture, classical music, museums, traditional coffeehouses and distinctive food culture.

    Is Vienna suitable for travellers over 60?
    Vienna can work particularly well for older travellers who enjoy combining sightseeing, culture, good food and relaxed time in cafés, with an extensive public transport network making it possible to explore the city without relying entirely on walking.

    Some Cities Stay With You

    I suppose that is why Vienna has stayed with me for nearly thirty years.

    It isn’t simply because it is beautiful, or because it has wonderful food, fascinating history and some of the best architecture in Europe. It is because of what that first trip represented.

    Sharon and I were still relatively new to each other. We had young families, busy lives and plenty of complications to work around. We weren’t travelling like we do now, where you can jump on a plane for a few days almost as casually as taking the car somewhere for the weekend.

    That first trip was a bit of a gamble.

    Looking back, I probably made it more complicated than it needed to be. I booked it without properly thinking through the childcare, the school arrangements, the timing, the travelling and, apparently, the amount of luggage required for four nights in December!

    But we went.

    And nearly thirty years later, I can still remember the excitement of arriving, the cold, the lights, the architecture, the little places we found and the feeling that we had somehow escaped normal life for a few days.

    Perhaps that is what I like most about travelling.

    Not necessarily ticking places off a list, but creating memories with someone that stay with you long after the hotel has been forgotten.

    Vienna has changed enormously since that first visit, and so have we. Yet every time I return, there is still something familiar about it. Maybe that is why it remains my favourite European city.

    And it has got me thinking about other cities we’ve returned to over the years. Milan and Dubrovnik are two more that immediately spring to mind, and both have their own stories.

    I’ll probably share those another time.

    For now, I’d love to know:

    Is there a city or place you’ve visited that has stayed with you for years?

    Perhaps somewhere you first visited when you were younger, returned to much later, and suddenly saw through completely different eyes.

    Sometimes the places that matter most aren’t necessarily the ones on somebody else’s list of must-see destinations.

    They’re the ones that became part of your story.

  • Autumn Warmers, Mum’s Old Sayings, and the Art of Saving a Few Quid After 60

    Midweek Conversation - Autumn on it's way, stew's on the cooker and a couple of ways to save a few pounds in your sixties.

    I’m writing this in a rare quiet moment as I rush between client meetings up in the North West this week.

    With the Crete trip getting closer, I’m still making the rounds explaining the winding down of my consultancy practice. People ask if I enjoy all the endless driving and hotel stays.

    The honest answer is no, not really.

    It’s the one side of the business I certainly won’t miss.

    Driving across the Cheshire countryside today, it struck me just how fast time is moving.

    Autumn is well on its way. The evenings are getting shorter, there’s a definite chill in the air, and before long we’ll be reaching for the slow cooker again.

    I also had a call from my grandson today. He’s been picked for his school football team in his favourite position. Apparently, his Sunday league coach insists on playing him in the wrong spot!

    Mind you, he mentioned he needs new boots. I’m convinced he manages to wangle a new pair out of me every month.

    Midweek Chat: Comfort Food & Mum’s Clever Ways

    This was supposed to be one of our regular finance chats, following on from our pension discussion. Hopefully, a few of you managed to track down a forgotten pot or two.

    Our next deep dive will be on investing in our sixties, but driving through the autumn drizzle today just made me think of my mum.

    We didn’t have a lot of money growing up, but my word, she was clever.

    From paying the Co-op insurance collector weekly at the door to saving up for everything, you simply never bought something if you hadn’t saved for it first.

    I still catch myself telling my own kids that whenever they start talking about car leases or buying things on credit.

    Mum was also a master at making the most of cheaper cuts of meat with her winter stews and casseroles.

    There’s something deeply comforting about a good old-fashioned meal bubbling away in the kitchen while the weather outside does its worst.

    Which brings me to my first question for today:

    What’s your all-time favourite autumn stew or casserole?

    A Few Quick Over-60 Discounts Worth Checking

    Autumn also brought back another classic phrase my mum used to preach:

    “Look after the pennies and the pounds will look after themselves.”

    I’m not sure how much attention I paid to it when I was younger, but it makes a lot more sense as the years go on.

    And if we can save a few pounds here and there, why not spend those savings on things we actually enjoy?

    There are plenty of useful perks and discounts available once you reach 60 across the UK. The point isn’t to spend your life hunting down discounts. It’s simply that if someone is willing to knock money off the price, why pay full whack?

    A few worth checking:

    • Free NHS prescriptions: Available in England once you turn 60.
    • Free NHS sight tests: Available in England for everyone aged 60 and over.
    • Senior Railcard: Available from age 60 and can save a third on most rail fares.
    • Concessionary bus travel: Rules vary across the UK, so check what’s available where you live.
    • Retail discounts: Some retailers offer specific over-60 discounts or discount days, so it’s always worth asking.

    It always pays to ask before you pay!

    And Then There Were the Sayings…

    Of course, our parents didn’t have Google or endless parenting books.

    They had sayings.

    I’m willing to bet quite a few of us have caught ourselves using the exact same ones with our own children and grandchildren.

    Here are five that immediately came to mind:

    “Were you born in a barn?”

    Delivered the second a door was left open. Although, thinking about it, barns do actually have doors.

    “Am I paying to heat the entire street?”

    A true classic that probably hits even harder today.

    “This isn’t a hotel, you know.”

    Usually followed by a reminder that washing, cooking and cleaning don’t magically happen by themselves. Sharon still say’s this to me now. I have no idea why!

    “I’m going to count to three…”

    Nobody ever really knew what happened at three, nobody wanted to find out either.

    “I don’t care who started it.”

    The ultimate parental ruling.

    Both kids were instantly in trouble.

    Looking back, maybe our parents really did know a thing or two.

    Over to You…

    Let’s open up two conversations in the comments today:

    1. What’s your go-to stew or casserole recipe as the weather turns?

    2. What’s the funniest or most memorable saying your parents or grandparents used?

    And be honest…

    How many of them have you caught yourself using?

  • How to Price Contracting Jobs Without Leaving Money on the Table

    Why pricing your job accurately is the driving factor behind making a healthy profit.

    🟦 Business After 60 Conversation

    Sometimes you are just good at something and you can’t really explain why. This conversation is relevant at any age if you run or manage a contractor business.

    Over the last few years, some of the questions I’ve been asked most often by contractors are:

    “How can I price my electrical jobs without leaving money on the table?”

    “Why aren’t I getting enough leads?”

    “I’m doing loads of quotes, but I’m not winning any work.”

    Change electrician to plumber, builder, carpenter, window installer, heating engineer or another trade and the questions are remarkably similar.

    Every trade has its own technical requirements, regulations and certification, but when it comes to running a profitable contracting business, there are some fundamentals that don’t change.

    And one of the biggest is pricing.

    I’ve spent many years advising and running contracting businesses, and one thing has become very clear to me:

    You can be the best electrician, plumber or carpenter in your area, but if you consistently get your pricing wrong, you won’t have a successful business.

    Price too high and you don’t win the work.

    Price too low and you win the work — but lose money doing it.

    Neither is a particularly good business model.

    So, how do you get it right?

    This isn’t intended to be a complicated estimating manual. It is an overview of the areas I believe every contractor should have under control if they want their quoting to consistently produce a profit.


    Why accurate pricing matters

    It sounds obvious, but inaccurate estimating can have a surprisingly damaging effect on a contracting business.

    A small mistake on one job might not matter.

    Make the same mistake on twenty jobs and you have a problem.

    And I’ve seen businesses make money on paper while losing money in reality because their pricing system didn’t properly account for labour, overheads, wasted time, materials or variations.

    A structured, consistent and transparent pricing system does three important things.

    It protects your cash flow

    You shouldn’t be relying on the deposit from the next job to cover the materials or costs from the last one.

    It protects your margin

    Every cost needs to be accounted for — including the ones that are easy to forget.

    Fuel, vehicles, administration, supervision, travelling, tools, insurance, software and all the other costs involved in running the business don’t disappear simply because they aren’t visible on the quote.

    It builds client confidence

    A professional quote that clearly explains what is included, what isn’t included and how changes will be dealt with gives the client confidence.

    It gives you something to learn from

    Perhaps most importantly, you should be able to compare what you estimated with what actually happened.

    If you estimated 20 hours and the job took 30, that’s information.

    Ignore it and you will probably make the same mistake again.

    Use it and your future pricing becomes better.


    So how do you price a contracting job accurately?

    In my experience, pricing is one of the most valuable skills a tradesman can develop.

    You don’t need to become an accountant.

    But you do need to understand what the job is going to cost you, what your business needs to recover and what profit you need to make.

    I would break it down into several key areas.


    1. Understand the job before putting a price on it

    This sounds straightforward, but too many pricing problems start before the calculator or spreadsheet is even opened.

    Make sure you understand exactly what the client wants and what you are actually being asked to deliver.

    Purpose and deliverables

    Be specific.

    What exactly are you supplying?

    What exactly are you installing?

    What does the client expect to receive at the end?

    The clearer the scope, the less chance there is of misunderstanding later.

    Technical documentation

    Where appropriate, review drawings, take-offs and client-supplied information carefully.

    Look for missing information, clashes or anything that could turn into an additional cost later.

    Site conditions

    Whenever possible, understand the site rather than relying entirely on paper.

    Access, ceiling heights, existing installations, restricted areas, occupied buildings and difficult working conditions can all add time.

    And time costs money.

    Regulatory and compliance requirements

    Identify permits, testing, certification and other compliance requirements before you price the work.

    Don’t discover them after you’ve won the job.

    Dependencies

    Consider other trades, deliveries and scheduling.

    You can price eight hours of work perfectly and still lose money if your eight hours become three separate visits because another contractor wasn’t ready.

    Assumptions and exclusions

    This is one of the areas I think contractors sometimes overlook.

    Be clear about what isn’t included.

    For example, asbestos removal, plastering, making good, specialist access equipment or work by another trade may sit outside your price.

    Don’t leave it for an argument later.

    Risks and contingencies

    Think about what could reasonably go wrong.

    Fragile ceilings.

    Restricted access.

    Night work.

    Difficult working environments.

    Existing installations that aren’t as straightforward as they appeared.

    You don’t need to add an enormous contingency to every job, but you do need to understand the risks you are taking.


    2. Calculate your material costs properly

    Material prices move constantly.

    If you are pricing today’s job using a price you remember from six months ago, you may already be losing money.

    Build a proper materials list

    List everything.

    Cables, fittings, fixings and consumables for an electrical contractor.

    The equivalent materials for whatever your particular trade requires.

    The little things are easily forgotten — and little things multiplied across hundreds of jobs aren’t little anymore.

    Use current supplier pricing

    Use up-to-date supplier catalogues, price books or online pricing wherever possible.

    Don’t rely on memory.

    Allow for waste

    Cut-offs, breakages, damaged materials and unexpected changes happen.

    A sensible allowance can protect you from having to absorb those costs.

    Don’t forget delivery

    Delivery charges, small-order fees and handling costs can all eat into margin.

    Create standard assemblies

    For repetitive work, standard assemblies can save a huge amount of time.

    For an electrician, that might be a standard price for a double socket installation, lighting point or consumer unit.

    Other trades can do exactly the same thing with their own repetitive work.

    The benefit isn’t just speed.

    It creates consistency.

    Remember markup and warranty

    If you supply materials, your price needs to reflect more than the cost of buying them.

    There is administration involved.

    There may be warranty obligations.

    There is time involved in sourcing and supplying them.

    Make sure your pricing reflects the complete cost of providing them.


    3. Work out what your labour really costs

    This is where I believe many contractors get themselves into trouble.

    They know what they want to earn per hour.

    That isn’t necessarily the same thing as what their labour actually costs the business.

    Break the job into stages

    For example:

    First fix.

    Second fix.

    Testing.

    Handover.

    Breaking a job down makes it easier to identify where time might be lost.

    Use real information

    If you have completed similar jobs before, use that information.

    If a particular installation normally takes you six hours, don’t automatically estimate four because you want the quote to look competitive.

    Your historical job data is one of the most valuable pricing tools you have.

    Consider the working environment

    Access, cramped spaces, other trades, occupied buildings and difficult conditions all affect productivity.

    Include supervision

    If you have apprentices, labourers or junior staff, remember that somebody has to manage and supervise them.

    Their time still costs the business money.

    Include travel and setup

    Travel.

    Loading and unloading.

    Setting up.

    Clearing away.

    Testing.

    Certification.

    These are all part of the job even though they may not be the part the client sees.

    Know your charge-out rate

    Your charge-out rate needs to recover the actual cost of employing that person and the overheads associated with the business.

    Wages are only part of it.

    Insurance, vehicles, tools, administration, premises and other operating costs all need to be recovered.


    4. Understand your overheads

    Overheads are the hidden costs of running a contracting business.

    And if you don’t recover them through your pricing, you are effectively working for free for part of the time.

    Think about:

    • Insurance
    • Vehicles
    • Fuel
    • Tools and equipment
    • Phones
    • Software
    • Premises
    • Accounting
    • Administration
    • Marketing
    • Training
    • Management time

    The exact list will depend on the business.

    The important thing is to know what yours actually are.

    Then decide how you are going to recover them.

    You might build them into your labour rate.

    You might recover some as a percentage of costs.

    There isn’t necessarily one magic formula.

    Consistency is more important than complexity.

    And review your overheads regularly.

    Costs change.

    Fuel goes up.

    Software subscriptions increase.

    Insurance changes.

    Vehicles need replacing.

    If your pricing stays exactly the same while your costs continue rising, your margin is quietly disappearing.


    5. Set your profit margin deliberately

    This is probably the biggest difference between pricing a job and building a profitable business.

    Don’t simply add something to your costs and hope there is enough left at the end.

    Decide what return the business needs.

    Different types of work may justify different margins.

    Routine service work, complex projects and emergency work don’t necessarily carry the same risk or require the same pricing approach.

    And there is an important distinction every contractor should understand:

    Markup isn’t margin

    If your job costs £1,000 and you add a 25% markup:

    £1,000 + £250 = £1,250

    Your profit is £250.

    But £250 isn’t 25% of the selling price.

    Your margin is 20%.

    If you want a 20% margin on a job costing £1,000:

    £1,000 ÷ 0.80 = £1,250

    That’s a simple distinction, but confusing markup and margin can cost a business a lot of money over time.

    The formula is:

    Price = Cost ÷ (1 – Target Margin)

    So if your cost is £1,000 and your target margin is 20%:

    £1,000 ÷ 0.80 = £1,250

    Know which number you are working with.


    6. Choose the right pricing model

    There isn’t one pricing method that works for every job.

    The right approach depends on the type of work.

    Time and materials

    Useful where the scope is uncertain or investigative.

    Fault finding is a good example.

    You don’t always know what you are going to find before you start.

    Flat-rate or per-point pricing

    Useful for standardised work.

    It can make pricing faster and more consistent while rewarding efficiency.

    I’ve seen electricians use this approach successfully for repetitive work where the scope is well understood.

    Fixed or lump-sum pricing

    Useful when the work is clearly defined, particularly where drawings, specifications and deadlines are available.

    The advantage for the client is cost certainty.

    The risk for the contractor is that you have to get your preparation right.

    Tiered pricing

    Good / Better / Best can be an effective way of giving clients a choice.

    For example, an electrical contractor might offer different kitchen rewiring packages with different levels of fittings, lighting and technology.

    The client gets a choice rather than simply seeing one number.

    And you create an opportunity to increase the average value of the job without simply trying to “sell harder”.

    Maintenance plans

    Don’t overlook recurring revenue.

    Testing, inspection, emergency lighting or equipment maintenance agreements can create more predictable income and stronger long-term customer relationships.

    For many contracting businesses, building some recurring revenue into the business can make a significant difference to cash flow and stability.


    7. Use technology where it genuinely helps

    You don’t need complicated software simply because everyone else appears to be using it.

    But the right estimating system can make a big difference.

    Modern estimating software can help contractors:

    • Complete digital take-offs from plans
    • Build bills of materials
    • Create reusable assemblies
    • Maintain current material pricing
    • Apply consistent markups and margins
    • Produce professional quotes
    • Offer Good / Better / Best options
    • Compare estimated and actual hours
    • Capture time
    • Manage variations and change orders
    • Convert accepted quotes into jobs
    • Raise purchase orders
    • Track work in progress
    • Keep testing certificates and job records together

    The important word is system.

    Technology doesn’t fix poor pricing.

    It makes a good pricing process faster and more consistent.

    I’ve also been looking at the estimating software regularly used by UK contractors and developing an independent Ropho checklist to help contractors compare the options against the size and type of their business.

    A sole trader doesn’t necessarily need the same system as a larger limited company.

    The best software is the software that solves your problems without creating another one.


    8. Benchmark yourself — but don’t become obsessed with your competitor

    A few years ago I gave a presentation on benchmarking at a trade conference.

    It produced a lively conversation.

    I suggested that trade businesses should regularly review their pricing against the market and their own performance.

    The response from some people was predictable:

    “I/we don’t have time for this extra work.”

    I understand that.

    When you’re busy running jobs, quoting, dealing with customers and managing staff, another spreadsheet doesn’t sound particularly attractive.

    But there is a problem.

    If you don’t know where you stand, you are pricing blind.

    Rates vary enormously by region, type of work, customer, complexity and level of expertise.

    A contractor in one part of the UK shouldn’t automatically copy the rate of a contractor in another.

    Benchmarking should be a sense check, not a race to the bottom.

    Look at:

    • Local market rates
    • Your actual costs
    • Your productivity
    • Your win rate
    • Your margins
    • The type of customers you want
    • The type of work you want more of

    Then decide where you should sit.

    And review it regularly.

    Why being busy, but not making a profit can be confusing.
    So frustrated at not making a profit, this contractor nearly crashed the van.

    Don’t confuse being busy with being profitable

    This is something I’ve seen repeatedly over the years.

    A contractor tells me:

    “We’re absolutely flat out.”

    My next question is usually:

    “That’s good. Are you making money?”

    Being busy can be very reassuring.

    The phone is ringing.

    The diary is full.

    There are vans everywhere.

    But if your pricing is wrong, you can be incredibly busy and still have very little to show for it.

    In some cases, being busy with the wrong work can actually make the situation worse.

    You are tying up your people, vehicles and cash while generating insufficient return.

    That’s why I believe pricing deserves much more attention than simply asking:

    “Will the customer accept this price?”

    The better question is:

    “Does this price make sense for my business?”


    Pricing creates trust — and trust creates profit

    At the end of the day, a customer isn’t simply buying a cable, a socket, a window, a boiler or a few hours of labour.

    They are buying expertise.

    They are buying reliability.

    They are buying compliance.

    They are buying someone to turn up when they said they would and do the job properly.

    They’re buying peace of mind.

    That doesn’t mean you can charge whatever you like.

    It means you shouldn’t automatically assume that being the cheapest is the best way to win work.

    A professional pricing process helps communicate value.

    Explain what the customer is paying for

    Make the value clear.

    Give customers choices

    Where appropriate, offer different levels of specification or service.

    Be transparent

    Explain what is included, what isn’t and how unexpected work will be handled.

    Keep your promises

    Deliver what you quoted.

    Communicate early if circumstances change.

    Document variations.

    Learn from every job

    This is perhaps the most important one.

    When the job is finished, compare:

    What did I estimate?

    with

    What actually happened?

    How many hours?

    How much material?

    What went wrong?

    What went better than expected?

    What would I price differently next time?

    That information is gold.

    Next week: Getting the work through the door

    Getting your pricing right is one part of running a profitable contracting business.

    The next question is a pretty obvious one:

    How do you get enough of the right people to ask you for a quote in the first place — and then actually convert those enquiries into profitable work?

    That’s what we’ll look at in next week’s Business After 60 Conversation.

    I’ll be talking about getting leads and converting them for your contracting business without spending hundreds or thousands of pounds every month on aggressive email systems and complicated marketing campaigns.

    Because generating enquiries is one thing.

    Turning the right enquiries into customers is another.


    And finally…

    I’ve always believed that one of the biggest mistakes a contractor can make is assuming that being good at the trade automatically means being good at running the business.

    It doesn’t.

    You can be an outstanding electrician and a poor businessman.

    You can be an exceptional plumber and consistently under-price your work.

    You can be brilliant at building, carpentry or installation and still spend your evenings wondering where all the money has gone.

    The trade gets the work through the door.

    The business systems determine whether that work actually makes you money.

    Pricing is one of those systems.

    Get the scope right.

    Know your material costs.

    Understand your real labour cost.

    Recover your overheads.

    Set your margin deliberately.

    Choose the right pricing model.

    Benchmark yourself.

    Use technology where it genuinely helps.

    And, perhaps most importantly, learn from your actual results.

    Because the objective isn’t simply to win more work.

    It’s to win the right work at the right price — and still have a profitable business when you’ve finished it.

    That’s the difference between being busy and building a business.

    FAQs

    How do I price a contracting job accurately?

    Start by understanding the complete scope of the work, then calculate your material costs, labour, overheads and required profit margin. You should also consider access, site conditions, compliance, travel, waste and potential risks. Finally, compare your estimate with the actual cost after the job is complete so you can improve future pricing.

    What is the difference between markup and profit margin?

    Markup is the percentage you add to your cost. Margin is the percentage of the final selling price that represents profit. For example, adding 25% markup to a £1,000 cost produces a £1,250 selling price, but the resulting profit margin is 20%.

    Should contractors use estimating software?

    Estimating software can make pricing faster and more consistent, particularly for businesses carrying out repetitive work. It can help with take-offs, material costs, labour, assemblies, margins, quotations and comparing estimated costs with actual results. However, software won’t fix a poor pricing system — it simply makes a good process easier to manage.

  • Why Winchester Is Such a Big Part of My Life — And It’s Not the Round Table

    Why Winchester holds a special place in my heart.

    Our Lives Take Various Paths: Why Winchester is So Special to Me

    Our lives take various different paths over the years.

    Some people call them “sliding doors” moments—those occasions when you turn left instead of right, make a different decision, or simply decide to do something you wouldn’t normally do. Looking back, you realise that one small decision can change the course of your life forever.

    For me, one of those moments happened in Winchester.

    At the time, I was living with my parents between Winchester and Eastleigh, having previously lived in Swanmore.

    My mates and I would traditionally head off to Southampton for our Friday night entertainment—The Top Rank was the place to be. We’d head there looking for a good night out, great music, and, if we were lucky, perhaps a girlfriend or two.

    But on this particular rainy night, for whatever reason, we decided to do something different. We went to Winchester instead.

    As luck would have it, I met my first wife. She would go on to become the mother of my children, so that seemingly insignificant decision turned out to be monumental.

    And there is another little twist, my brother is still happily married to my first wife’s sister. They met at my wedding rehearsal. You really couldn’t make it up!

    So perhaps you can understand why Winchester has always held such a special place in my life.

    It’s Not Just About the Memories

    My connection with Winchester didn’t end with that chapter. Over the years, I’ve spent many a happy evening making my way around what is famously known as the “Winchester Mile”—that wonderful collection of pubs stretching through the city.

    And when I say many a year, I mean it. I suspect I’ve done a reasonably thorough piece of research… purely in the interests of journalism, obviously.

    That is the magic of Winchester. It is one of those rare places that manages to be deeply historic without feeling like a static museum piece. It’s a proper, living city—compact, beautifully paved, full of independent shops, fantastic local bakeries, and quiet pub courtyards where you can actually hear yourself talk.

    And perhaps that’s why I keep coming back.

    The Simple Pleasures of a Winchester Weekend

    For us, the real charm of a Winchester weekend isn’t about trying to see everything. It’s the simple things.

    Take the River Itchen: you can follow the riverside walk past the water meadows towards St Cross and, within minutes of leaving the High Street, find yourself surrounded by quiet Hampshire countryside. It’s flat, peaceful, and a world away from the noise of everyday life.

    After a decent walk, there’s always the important question of food. Winchester has a brilliant food scene—from grabbing a black coffee and a fresh pastry near the Cathedral Close to finding a cosy corner in an old timber-framed pub for a proper long lunch.

    The pace forces you to slow down. You don’t need to rush around ticking off a tourist checklist. You wander, browse, stop for lunch, enjoy a coffee, or discover a quiet pub you’ve never noticed before. Somehow, the afternoon just stretches out effortlessly.

    And Then There Are the Pubs…

    I couldn’t write about Winchester without mentioning the pubs.

    While I’ve spent plenty of time working my way around that famous mile, my approach these days is somewhat more selective—age does that to you!

    There is one particular spot visitors should seek out: the tiny pub tucked away opposite the cathedral. If you’ve been there, you’ll know exactly which one I mean. If you haven’t, I won’t spoil it; part of the fun of Winchester is discovering these little places for yourself.

    Why Winchester Makes Such a Great Weekend Break

    Winchester works so well because you don’t need three days packed with activities, nor do you need a rigid plan. You can simply be there.

    Have a wander, find somewhere great for lunch, visit the cathedral, walk along the river, explore the independent shops, and enjoy dinner somewhere decent. If you’re feeling adventurous, you can see how many historic pubs you can fit into an evening—though these days, my knees and liver prefer a gentler pace.

    That’s the beauty of returning to somewhere you’ve known for decades: you see it differently as you get older. The city hasn’t necessarily changed that much—you have. What once meant late nights and loud music now means good food, a comfortable hotel, a decent walk, a fine glass of wine, and enjoying the atmosphere.

    Perhaps that’s one of the great things about life after 60. We don’t always need somewhere brand new. Sometimes, we just need to look at somewhere familiar with fresh eyes.

    For me, Winchester isn’t simply an historic city. It’s part of my story. One Friday night, many years ago, a group of us decided to turn left instead of right—and my life changed.

    So forget the Round Table for a moment. This is my Winchester.

    What about you?

    Perhaps that’s what I like most about looking back at Winchester.

    It’s not really about the cathedral, the Round Table, the pubs or even the nightlife.

    It’s about what happened there.

    One Friday night, my mates and I decided to do something different. We turned left instead of right, went to Winchester instead of Southampton, and I met the woman who would become my first wife and the mother of my children.

    And from that one decision came a whole series of events that shaped my life.

    That’s the funny thing about life.

    We rarely know at the time that we’re standing in front of a sliding door.

    We simply make a decision.

    Sometimes it turns out to be insignificant.

    And sometimes, years later, we look back and realise:

    That changed everything.

    So I’m curious.

    What’s your Winchester?

    What’s the town or city that has a special place in your life?

    Where was your own sliding doors moment — the place where you turned left instead of right and, perhaps without knowing it at the time, changed the direction of your life?

    I’d love to hear your story.

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