Author: stevek

  • Business Research: Climbing the Right Ladder

    Real research for effective b2b sales


    🟦 Business After 60 Conversation

    “Didn’t we cover research last week?”

    Fair question.

    Last week, we covered the basics, knowing your products inside out, finding the Managing Director, checking Companies House, checking turnover, scanning LinkedIn, and looking for recent news.

    All of that matters. But here is the thing – that tells you what a company does. It doesn’t tell you how the company actually works.

    That is where many salespeople—and business owners—come unstuck.

    The most valuable research isn’t sitting on a website. It’s the information you only discover by asking better questions and understanding how the organisation really works.

    What Company Research Leaves Out

    1. Can They Actually Become a Good Customer?

    Just because you can win the business doesn’t mean you should.

    Before investing weeks of effort, you need to answer a few fundamental questions:

    • What are their payment terms?
    • What is their normal payment cycle?
    • Are they known for paying on time, or do they squeeze suppliers?
    • Will taking on this account damage your cash flow?

    If your standard terms are 30 days but theirs are 90, you’ve just given away two months of free credit before you’ve even agreed on a price. That isn’t a sales win; it’s a financial risk.

    2. Forget the “Decision Maker”—Build the Ladder of Approach

    A lot of traditional sales training focuses on hunting down the single “decision maker.” In reality, very few major purchases rest on one person’s shoulders.

    Your real job is finding everyone who influences the decision.

    Imagine selling machinery or capital equipment into a factory. The internal ladder might look like this:

    • Managing Director
    • Operations Director
    • Production Manager
    • Engineering Manager
    • Maintenance Team
    • Operators
    • Purchasing / Procurement

    Every single person on that list can either help your sale along… or quietly kill it behind closed doors.

    I learned this lesson the hard way over thirty years ago. I was working as a young automation sales engineer for a major German manufacturer.

    We were chasing a breakthrough contract with what was potentially the single biggest user of that product in the UK.

    Accompanied by our UK Sales Director, we set off for Belfast, which during the Troubles, was a carefully planned, high-stakes trip in itself involving long drives, ferries, and security checkpoints.

    As the sales engineer responsible for securing the opportunity, I genuinely believed we’d covered every angle.

    We hadn’t.

    What had I forgotten? The Production Team.

    We got right in front of the board, made our pitch, and watched the whole deal stall out.

    The Design Team loved it, but because we hadn’t bothered to talk to the people on the factory floor who actually had to run and live with the machinery, the internal push-back killed the deal right there on the spot.

    All that travel, all that planning, completely wasted.

    That painful journey home was when I first realised, there is always a ladder of approach.

    Whether it’s just two people in a small business or six different departments in a major corporation, skipping a rung to get to the “big boss” will almost always catch up with you.

    3. Who Benefits… and Who Loses?

    Every business has competing internal priorities, and every change creates friction.

    • If your system saves time for the Production Manager, does it create a headache for Maintenance?
    • If your proposal makes Purchasing look good on cost, does Engineering hate the quality compromises?

    Uncovering these internal tug-of-wars during your discovery phase is real business research.

    4. Respect the Unofficial Influencers

    Beyond the formal structure, every business has key influencers who don’t show up on an organisation chart:

    • The Receptionist or Executive PA who guards the diary.
    • The Stores Manager who knows which suppliers actually deliver on time.
    • The Production Supervisor who knows what breaks down.
    • The veteran engineer who has been there thirty years and whose opinion everyone trusts.

    Ignore them at your peril.

    5. Why the Ladder Works: Two Real-World Scenarios

    Whether you are dealing with an inbound lead or cold outreach, climbing the rungs systematically is what closes deals.

    Scenario A: The Warm Lead or Referral

    Even when a client comes to you with a clear pain point, you still have to cover every rung to ensure smooth sailing at the final sign-off.

    Take a recent electrical contractor client of mine chasing a long-term local authority contract.

    The sales cycle stretched over nine months because of the sheer number of departments involved: Procurement, Planning, Technical & Regulatory, and Logistics.

    To win, they had to build trust across every department. Skipping a single rung could have scuppered the entire project.

    The discipline of B2B sales is moving methodically from one level of influence to the next.

    “Now that we’ve agreed on how our solution solves the bottleneck in your department, are you happy for us to present these findings to the Design Team next?”

    At every level you’re gaining agreement, uncovering concerns and refining your proposal. By the time you finally reach the boardroom, very few surprises remain.

    Many salespeople skip the ladder because they’re taught to get to the Managing Director as quickly as possible.

    It feels efficient. In reality, it often creates resistance.

    People who feel ignored during the process have an unfortunate habit of raising objections at exactly the wrong moment.

    Scenario B: Proactive Outreach

    The same logic applies when your research identifies a potential problem you know you can fix.

    By mapping out the influencers beforehand, you aren’t just cold pitching the board—you are reaching out with specific, targeted insights for each level of the organisation.

    (We break down how to secure those initial meetings in Episode 2, with detailed frameworks available in our subscriber toolkits).

    Applying the Four Pillars

    The framework I introduced in Week 1 becomes even more valuable once you’ve secured the meeting and started to understand how the organisation really works.

    LOOK

    Look beyond the organisation chart. Observe the business itself. How do departments interact? Who seems to carry influence? Which areas appear busy, well organised or under pressure? Often, the physical environment tells you as much as the annual report.

    READ

    Continue researching throughout the sales process. Read technical specifications, procurement policies, industry publications and anything that helps you understand the customer’s commercial and operational priorities. Research shouldn’t stop once the appointment is booked.

    WATCH

    Watch how people behave during meetings. Who asks the technical questions? Who remains quiet? Who does everyone turn to before making a decision? The most influential person in the room isn’t always the one sitting at the head of the table.

    LISTEN

    Listen carefully to the language people use. Listen for frustrations, repeated concerns and throwaway comments. They often reveal more about the real buying process than the formal agenda ever will.

    The Four Pillars aren’t simply a way to prepare for meetings. They’re a practical way of understanding how businesses really make decisions.

    Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

    Why isn’t finding the Managing Director enough?

    In many B2B organisations, the Managing Director may approve the purchase, but they rarely make the decision in isolation. Production, Engineering, Purchasing, Finance and the end users all influence the outcome. Understanding who shapes the decision is often just as important as knowing who signs the order.


    What is the ‘Ladder of Approach’ in B2B sales?

    The Ladder of Approach is a practical way of identifying everyone involved in a buying decision. Rather than focusing on one individual, it encourages you to understand the people who use, specify, influence, approve and ultimately authorise the purchase.


    How do I identify the real influencers inside a business?

    Start by asking simple questions. Who will use the product every day? Who maintains it? Who specifies it? Who controls the budget? Who has the final authority? You’ll often discover that influence extends well beyond the organisation chart.


    Can this approach work for small businesses as well as large organisations?

    Yes. The ladder may only involve two or three people in a smaller business, but the principle is exactly the same. Before presenting your solution, understand who will be affected by the decision and whose support you’ll need.

    The Takeaway

    Research doesn’t stop when you’ve found the Managing Director’s name on LinkedIn.

    It finishes when you understand how decisions are really made inside the organisation.

    In my experience, companies rarely buy because one person says yes. They buy because nobody important is left saying no.

    The most overlooked skills in B2B sales Getting the right meeting

    Read More – 🟦 Business After 60 Conversation – Getting the right meeting.

  • Weekend Conversation: Wine, Summer Memories & Life After 60

    This weekend conversation - Wine, food and memories.

    Food, Memories & Our Glorious Decade

    Sometimes the best conversations aren’t about business or money. They’re about the simple things that make life enjoyable.

    Welcome to this weekend’s conversation.

    Sharon and I are now into our third week exploring England’s beautiful East Coast. It’s been part holiday, part research trip for Ropho and, perhaps most importantly, a reminder that some of the best discoveries happen when you slow down.

    We’ve enjoyed stunning scenery, stayed in some lovely hotels, uncovered a few hidden gems for future weekend breaks and, above all, met some genuinely interesting people. I’ll be sharing plenty of those experiences over the coming weeks.

    But after this week’s conversations about business and personal finance, I thought we’d do what weekends are for.

    Pour yourself a glass of something you enjoy, settle into your favourite chair and join me for three conversations that have been on my mind this week.


    1. Wine, Scallops and the Unwritten Rules of Hospitality

    One evening this week we enjoyed an outstanding plate of Oriental scallops. As often happens, the meal became more than just dinner. It turned into a conversation with the chef about seafood, wine pairings and what actually makes a good bottle of wine these days.

    My own view has always been wonderfully uncomplicated.

    Red wine goes with almost everything.

    Although, even I’ll admit that pairing a full-bodied red with delicate scallops may be stretching the friendship a little.

    During the meal I mentioned to Sharon that I’d invited a couple of new people we’d met on our travels over for dinner when we return home. They’re interesting people who may even become part of the wider Ropho journey.

    That simple conversation led to another question.

    When you’re hosting friends, do you open your very best bottle, or do you quietly keep the special one tucked away for another occasion?

    Is hospitality about sharing your finest, or simply making people feel welcome?

    And while we’re on the subject, what do you think represents good value these days?

    Has the price of a decent bottle quietly crept beyond what most of us consider reasonable, or can you still find excellent wines without spending a fortune?

    Over to you…

    • Do you bring out the best bottle when guests visit?
    • What’s your favourite everyday wine that tastes far more expensive than it actually is?

    2. Long Summers, County Cricket and Village Life

    Driving through the countryside of Essex, Suffolk and Norfolk this last couple of weeks, brought back memories I hadn’t thought about for years.

    Summer feels different now.

    Perhaps it’s because we appreciate it more. Perhaps it’s because we know just how precious those warm evenings really are.

    Growing up in a small Hampshire village, summer seemed to last forever.

    I remember tractors humming across nearby fields, afternoons spent beside the village cricket ground with my grandfather and uncle, and those wonderful “special occasion” trips that felt like grand adventures.

    One of my favourites was visiting Hampshire’s old County Ground, where I watched legends such as Gordon Greenidge, Andy Roberts and Barry Richards from the boundary rope. I even remember being quietly smuggled into the Members’ Enclosure on one unforgettable afternoon.

    There were family picnics on Old Winchester Hill, walks through the beautiful Meon Valley and Sundays when visitors would call after church. Our bungalow stood next door to the parish church, and I can still picture my grandmother and mum sitting in the garden enjoying a gin and tonic while conversation drifted lazily into the evening sunshine.

    Funny how summer itself hasn’t really changed.

    Perhaps it’s simply our perspective that has.

    Over to you…

    When you think of summer, what’s the very first memory that comes flooding back?


    3. Our Glorious Decade

    One subject seems to come up more and more as we move through our sixties.

    The bucket list.

    Some people love the idea because it gives them purpose and direction.

    Others dislike the phrase altogether, believing it creates unnecessary pressure and turns life into a checklist.

    Personally, I think the answer lies somewhere in the middle.

    I don’t believe we need fifty grand ambitions scribbled onto a list.

    But I do believe we all need something exciting to look forward to.

    It might be travelling somewhere you’ve always dreamed about. Japan remains high on my own list.

    It might be learning a new skill, writing a book, starting a small business, volunteering, getting fitter than you’ve ever been or finally creating something you’ve talked about for years.

    For me, that’s exactly what Ropho represents.

    It’s proof that new ideas don’t have an expiry date.

    If anything, our sixties can become the decade when experience, freedom and confidence finally come together.

    I’ve started calling this our Glorious Decade, because I genuinely believe that’s what it can be.

    Not a time to slow down.

    A time to choose what really matters.

    Over to you…

    If there was one dream, one adventure or one personal goal you’d still love to achieve, what would it be?


    Final Thoughts

    One of the unexpected pleasures of writing Ropho has been the conversations that follow. Every week people share memories, opinions and experiences that often become the inspiration for future articles.

    So wherever this weekend finds you, I hope you find time to enjoy good food, good company and perhaps spend a few moments thinking about the adventures that still lie ahead.

    Life after sixty isn’t about looking backwards.

    It’s about making the years ahead every bit as interesting as those we’ve already enjoyed.

    Have a wonderful weekend.

    Steve

  • How to Audit Your Spending After 60 and Fund Adventure

    Auditing your finances after 60, so that you can fund excitement.


    🟨 Wednesday Finance Conversation:

    Now moving into the seventh month of Ropho, last week’s conversation about the lifestyle gap – the difference between the retirement we imagined and the one our pension alone may provide – reminded me why I started this website in the first place.

    It was never meant to be a place where I simply handed out advice. There are already plenty of excellent websites that explain pensions, investments and tax planning.

    My ambition was slightly different.

    I wanted to create a platform where people over 60 could talk openly about the subjects that really matter.

    To debate ideas, share experiences and sometimes even disagree respectfully.

    Conversations that aren’t always easy to have, but become much easier when people realise they aren’t facing them alone.

    Last week’s finance conversation, together with our earlier discussion about blended families, wills and trusts, generated some of the most thoughtful comments we’ve ever received.

    Reading through them taught me something.

    Although our circumstances are all different, most of us want exactly the same thing. We want to enjoy our sixties and seventies while we’re healthy enough to do so. Some of us dream of travelling. Others want to help grandchildren through university. Some simply want the reassurance of knowing they have enough money to sleep well at night.

    There isn’t a right answer, there are simply different priorities.

    One thing did become obvious, though.

    Many of you weren’t worried about running out of money.

    You simply wanted to make smarter decisions with the money you already have.

    As many of you know, when I write my Monday Business Conversations, I can speak with absolute confidence. After more than forty years working with businesses, I’ve seen what works – and perhaps more importantly – what doesn’t.

    These Wednesday and Weekend conversations are a little different.

    Here, I’m simply sharing my own experiences and opinions, hoping they resonate with you. In fact, researching these finance conversations has made me look at my own finances differently.

    More than once I’ve caught myself thinking, “I tell my business clients to review this every year, when was the last time I reviewed my own?”

    Which brings us neatly to this week’s conversation.


    The Adventure Fund Audit

    When most people hear the words “budget” or “review your spending,” they immediately think about giving things up.

    No more restaurant meals.

    No more spontaneous weekends away.

    Swap the coffee shop for instant coffee.

    If that’s what you think this conversation is about, let me put your mind at rest.

    We’re not doing that here.

    By the time we reach our sixties, most of us have worked far too hard to spend the next twenty or thirty years counting pennies.

    You deserve to enjoy your favourite restaurants, travel when the opportunity arises and enjoy the rewards of everything you’ve spent a lifetime building.

    But there is a huge difference between spending money on things that genuinely improve your life and allowing money to quietly disappear every month without even noticing.

    This week’s challenge is something I call The Adventure Fund Audit.

    The aim isn’t to spend less.

    It’s to spend more intentionally.


    1. The Low-Hanging Fruit – Finding the Silent Leaks

    Before looking for extra income, let’s stop the unnecessary leaks.

    These are usually the easiest wins.

    The Lazy Cash Trap

    One question worth asking is this.

    Is your savings account actually working for you?

    Many people still have money sitting in current accounts or older savings accounts earning very little interest.

    In business we’d probably describe this as idle capital.

    At home it’s simply money that could be working harder.

    Moving accessible savings into a competitive Cash ISA or higher-interest savings account could generate hundreds of pounds each year without taking any additional risk.

    That’s a weekend away simply from moving your money to a better home.

    Subscription Creep

    Take a look through your bank statements over the last three months.

    Streaming services.

    Apps.

    Magazine subscriptions.

    Gym memberships.

    How many are you genuinely using?

    Cancelling just two £15 monthly subscriptions releases £360 every year.

    That’s money you probably won’t even miss.

    The Loyalty Tax

    Insurance companies, broadband providers and utility suppliers know that many of us simply allow policies to renew automatically.

    An hour comparing prices could save several hundred pounds annually.

    Loyalty is admirable.

    Paying more than necessary isn’t.


    2. The Pension Treasure Hunt

    This could be the most rewarding part of today’s audit.

    Most of us have changed employers several times throughout our working lives.

    Every move often meant joining another workplace pension scheme.

    Then life happened.

    We moved house.

    Companies changed names.

    Paperwork disappeared.

    Those pension pots were forgotten.

    Today, billions of pounds remain sitting in lost or unclaimed pension accounts across the UK.

    Some may only contain a few thousand pounds.

    Others considerably more.

    Why Small Pension Pots Matter

    Finding a forgotten £5,000 pension won’t transform your retirement overnight.

    But it could pay for the holiday you’ve always promised yourselves.

    Help a grandchild.

    Provide an emergency fund.

    Or simply give you more financial confidence.

    Sometimes it’s the unexpected discoveries that make the biggest difference.

    Where Do You Start?

    The Government’s free Pension Tracing Service helps people locate workplace pension schemes linked to previous employers.

    You don’t need account numbers.

    Often just remembering where you’ve worked is enough to begin the search.

    Once you’ve found them, you can decide whether consolidating those pensions or discussing your options with Pension Wise or an independent financial adviser is appropriate for your circumstances.


    3. The Joy Versus Cost Test

    Once you’ve stopped the leaks, it’s time to look at your everyday spending.

    Rather than asking,

    “Can I afford this?”

    Try asking,

    “Does this genuinely improve my life?”

    If Friday night at your favourite Italian restaurant brings happiness every week…

    Keep doing it.

    That’s money well spent.

    On the other hand, I know from experience how easy it is to spend money on takeaway coffees and convenience food when I’m travelling to see business clients.

    Those little purchases don’t feel expensive individually.

    Over twelve months they soon add up.

    It’s not about restricting yourself.

    It’s about making sure your money reflects what’s actually important to you.


    Your Adventure Fund Challenge

    This week I’d encourage you to spend one evening doing three simple things.

    ✅ Review your last three months of bank statements and highlight recurring payments you no longer value.

    ✅ Write down every employer you’ve worked for and check whether you’ve left behind any forgotten pension pots.

    ✅ Add together everything you’ve saved or discovered.

    That figure becomes your personal Adventure Fund.

    You might be amazed how much money has been quietly hiding in plain sight.


    Ropho Reflection

    One thing this series has taught me is that financial planning isn’t really about money.

    It’s about choices.

    Every pound we save from waste is another pound we can spend on experiences, family, travel or simply enjoying life with fewer worries.

    For me, that’s what retirement planning should always be about.


    Coffee Break Question ☕

    Have you ever discovered money you didn’t realise you had?

    Perhaps an old savings account, Premium Bonds, a forgotten pension or simply money you’d been wasting every month without noticing.

    I’d genuinely love to hear your stories because, as Ropho continues to grow, it’s becoming increasingly clear that we learn just as much from each other as we do from any expert.


    Next Wednesday…

    The Waiting Game: Could Delaying Your Pension Actually Leave You Better Off?

    We’ll look at when waiting can make financial sense, when it doesn’t, and I’ll also share some of the excellent suggestions many of you have already contributed.

  • Getting the Right Meeting: The Most Overlooked Skill in B2B Sales

    Business After 60, Getting the right meeting. The most overlooked skill in B2B sales.

    🟦 Business After 60 Conversation

    In last week’s article, I explained why the “gift of the gab” isn’t what makes a great salesperson.

    Today, I’d like to challenge another common misconception.

    One thing that has always surprised me is how little attention most sales books give to securing the meeting itself.

    Most assume you’re already sitting in front of the customer and dive straight into building rapport, questioning techniques, handling objections, and closing the deal.

    Mine doesn’t.

    After more than forty years in B2B sales, I’ve learnt one simple, unshakeable truth.

    No meeting. No sale.

    Everything else comes afterwards.

    Very few sales courses explain the critical work that happens before you ever walk through the customer’s door. Yet this is exactly where many major sales opportunities are won—or lost.

    The Journey to the First Meeting

    We are incredibly lucky these days with the sheer volume of resources available at our fingertips.

    When I was starting out in the 1980s, doing company research meant a trip to the local library, hunting through physical directories, relying on creative word-of-mouth referrals, and actually navigating with a paper A-Z map.

    Today, there is no excuse for going in cold. The journey to a successful B2B sales meeting follows six distinct steps:

    Step 1: Research the Company

    Before you make contact, build a digital profile of the target business.

    Utilise everything available: their company website, LinkedIn, Google Maps (to see the physical scale of their operation), Companies House, the trade press, local news, and their direct competitors.

    Step 2: Find the Right Decision Maker

    Don’t settle for anyone who is simply willing to meet you.

    I learnt this lesson the hard way as a young, enthusiastic salesman back in the days when you could still get away with cold calling.

    I decided to pop in and try to speak to the owner of a major local electrical contracting firm—a serious outfit with over ten sparkies, a massive yard, and a full-time storeman.

    I strolled into the office and asked, “Can I speak to Mike, please?”

    A voice replied, “Mike speaking.”

    Fantastic, I thought. I spent the next 30 minutes delivering what I believed was a magnificent, flawless presentation. I showed him the latest product offers, the new Crabtree cooker sockets, and the new plastic socket boxes.

    He seemed genuinely interested, nodding throughout my presentation.

    At the end of my performance, he looked at me and said these immortal words: “I am just the yard man and the cleaner.”

    He was certainly the smartest, best-dressed cleaner I’d ever met.

    When I commented on it, he smiled and said, “I’ve just changed because I’m going to see my bank manager.”

    Meeting the wrong person wastes everybody’s time. You must target the individual who actually owns the problem you can solve and holds the budget to fix it.

    Step 3: Get Through the Gatekeeper Professionally

    Treat receptionists and PAs with genuine respect. They are not barriers to bypass; they are professionals who often know far more about the inner workings of the business than people realise.

    Step 4: Secure the Appointment

    Whether you use the telephone, email, LinkedIn, or a combination of whatever works best for your industry—always keep your eye on a single objective. You aren’t trying to sell your product yet. You are simply making an appointment with the right person.

    Step 5: Confirm Everything

    Once the date is set, lock down the operational details:

    • Who exactly is attending from their side?
    • Where is the meeting being held, and what time?
    • What are the parking arrangements and security procedures?
    • What is the dress code?
    • Do you need to bring specific presentations, samples, or documentation?
    • How much time have they allocated for you?

    Step 6: Turn Up Prepared

    Pack your literature, your laptop, your samples, your pre-written questions, and your core objectives the day before. On the day, arrive early, relax, and use those extra minutes in reception to observe your surroundings.

    Applying the Four Pillars: Look, Read, Watch, Listen

    In Week 1, I introduced the four habits that form the foundation of my entire sales process. Here is how they apply to the journey before the meeting even begins:

    • LOOK: Examine the company’s physical and digital presence. When you arrive on-site, look at the premises, the delivery vehicles, the reception area, and the staff. It tells you everything you need to know about their company culture.
    • READ: Read everything you can find about them online, on social media, and in print before you make your first approach.
    • WATCH: When you step into their building, watch how the staff interact, how busy the environment is, and how visitors are treated.
    • LISTEN: Listen to the background noise in reception. Listen to the gatekeeper. Listen to the tone of the customer when they greet you.

    Sometimes, you will learn far more about a business before the meeting officially starts than you ever will during the meeting itself.

    Continue the Conversation

    If you’d like to use the same planning process I’ve developed over the years, just drop me an email…

    It’s a practical working document that I still use to prepare for important customer meetings.

    The Professional B2B Sales Pre-Meeting Planner includes:

    ✔ Company research checklist
    ✔ Decision-maker planning sheet
    ✔ Telephone preparation notes
    ✔ Meeting objectives
    ✔ Travel and logistics checklist
    ✔ Equipment and literature checklist

    Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

    Why shouldn’t I just meet with anyone who says yes to a conversation?

    It is incredibly tempting to take any meeting when you are trying to build a sales pipeline.

    However, meeting with someone who lacks decision-making authority or a real business problem to solve is a trap.

    It gives you a false sense of progress while consuming valuable time that you should be spending targeting high-value decision-makers.

    How do you handle a gatekeeper who refuses to put you through to the decision-maker?

    Never argue, become defensive, or resort to cheap sales tricks.

    Instead, pivot to treating them as the internal expert. Ask for their professional advice:

    “I respect that he is incredibly busy. Based on how your team manages engineering procurement, what would be the best way for me to send over some brief technical data for him to look at when he has a moment?”

    What is the single most important detail to confirm before travelling to a meeting?

    The exact time allowed. There is nothing worse than arriving prepared for a comprehensive 45-minute technical discussion only to be told, “I’ve only got 10 minutes before a board meeting.”

    Confirming the time allowed ahead of time ensures you can structure your approach flawlessly before you step foot in the room.

    One thing I’ve learnt over the years is that successful sales meetings rarely happen by accident.

    They are usually the result of careful preparation long before anyone shakes hands or opens a laptop.

    Get this stage right and everything that follows becomes much easier.

    Join the Conversation

    What’s the biggest mistake you’ve ever made before a business meeting?

    Whether it was getting lost on the way, presenting to the wrong person like I did, or forgetting your samples—let me know in the comments below!

    Coming Up in the Business After 60 Conversation Series

    Behind the scenes, each conversation is also becoming part of a growing library of practical tools, planners and guides for entrepreneurs and business owners.

    • Week 1 – The Truth About Becoming a Great B2B Salesperson
    • Week 2 – Getting the Right Meeting: The Most Overlooked Skill (this week’s article)
    • Week 3 – Research That Wins Business & Finding the Decision Maker
    • Week 4 – Asking Better Questions & Building Trust
    • Week 5 – Presenting Value, Handling Objections & Closing Professionally
    • Week 6 – After the Sale: Building Customers for Life

  • Weekend Conversation: Strength, Oysters & Style After 60

    A weekend chat about how important strength is in your 60's, style and oysters.

    Good morning everyone.

    Sharon and I are one week into our East Coast adventure, working, writing and relaxing from a beautiful lodge here in Essex.

    We’ve spent a thoroughly enjoyable few days exploring more of the coastline and, once again, it’s reminded me just how underrated this part of England really is.

    From walking around Frinton-on-Sea and Walton-on-the-Naze to visiting a lovely local vineyard, we’ve sampled some fantastic seafood and, of course, had the inevitable debate over what I chose to wear to lunch!

    It got me thinking about three questions I’d love your thoughts on this weekend…

    💪 1. Is strength training really that important as we get older?

    I’ve become a real fan of strength training over the last few years. Nothing extreme—just sensible, regular exercises with dumbbells and resistance bands a few times each week.

    I genuinely feel stronger, fitter and have far more energy because of it.

    Sharon isn’t quite so convinced, and neither are several of my friends.

    They tend to picture heavy weights and intimidating gyms, whereas I see it as an insurance policy for staying active and independent.

    If you strength train, what persuaded you to start?

    And if you don’t… what’s stopping you?


    🦪 2. Oysters… the food of love or do they just make you gag?

    One of this week’s highlights was discovering just how famous Mersea Island is for its native oysters.

    Having eaten oysters in several parts of the world, I have to say the Mersea oyster is right up there. It has a slightly different, wonderfully crisp flavour—but I think that’s exactly what makes it special.

    Digging into it, I found a surprising fact. A serving of six oysters contains around 15 grams of high-quality protein, very few calories and is packed with Vitamin B12, zinc, copper and heart-healthy omega-3 oils. No wonder they’re considered a genuine superfood.

    So where do you stand?

    ❤️ Food of love?

    🤢 Or do they just make you gag?

    And if you do enjoy them, do you chew them, swallow them whole, or prefer them grilled or baked?


    👔 3. Has the sports jacket had its day?

    We stopped for lunch at a lovely gastro pub mid-week and I thought I’d pulled together a pretty sharp smart-casual outfit…

    A navy blazer…

    A classic polo shirt…

    Well-fitted jeans…

    And brown shoes.

    Apparently Sharon wasn’t quite as impressed, and I took a bit of friendly stick for it!

    Personally, I still think a structured sports jacket or blazer is the perfect way to smarten up a casual look without feeling overly formal.

    What’s your verdict?

    👔 Stylish and timeless?

    😄 A little old-fashioned?

    🤔 Or was it the brown shoes with the navy blazer that crossed the line?


    One Final Thought…

    People so often overlook Essex as a holiday destination, but after spending a week exploring its villages, vineyards, coastal paths and beaches, I honestly think it has an incredible amount to offer for a short break.

    Sometimes the best hidden treasures are much closer to home than we realise.

    Have a wonderful weekend everyone, and I look forward to reading your comments below!

    Steve

    Ropho – Pleasure & Business After 60

  • How to Make the Most of Your Pension After 60

    How to Make the Most of Your Pension After 60

    Welcome to our Wednesday Finance Conversation.

    Grab a black coffee—or a quick espresso if you need that extra caffeine kick—and let’s have a real, straight-talking chat.

    I was asked an interesting question last week while talking to one of my long-standing business clients.

    “Steve, how do you manage to be away so often, whether it’s travelling around the UK or heading overseas? I simply can’t afford it.”

    I had to laugh.

    Not because it was a silly question, but because I’ve worked with this client for more than six years. I know his company’s finances almost better than I know my own, and I’m fairly certain he’s not short of a few pennies.

    As we talked, it struck me that perhaps the issue isn’t always how much money we have. Sometimes it’s about how well we manage what we’ve already got, and whether we’re making the most of the opportunities available to us.

    That conversation stayed with me all week.

    Many of you have told me that money is one of the subjects you’d most like us to explore together—not because you’re struggling, but because you want to make smarter decisions that help you enjoy life after 60 even more.

    So, over the coming months, our Wednesday Finance Conversations will look at a wide range of topics—from pensions and retirement income to investing, working a little longer, turning hobbies into income, and making the most of what you’ve already built.

    Today’s conversation begins with a question many people quietly ask themselves…

    What happens when your pension isn’t quite what you hoped for?

    There’s a very specific kind of quiet anxiety that comes when you open your annual pension statement, look at the final number, and realise it doesn’t quite match the life you had pictured.

    Maybe you aren’t staring at a crisis. But you are looking at a lifestyle gap—the difference between a comfortable retirement and the active, travel-filled, intellectually stimulating next chapter you really want to live.

    The good news is that a pension shortfall doesn’t have to define your retirement. It can simply become the starting point for making a few thoughtful decisions that help you build the life you want.

    How Can You Reduce Spending Without Feeling Deprived?

    Before looking at how to bring more money in, the fastest way to give yourself a raise is to look at what’s going out.

    This isn’t about living on beans on toast or cutting out the dinners at your favourite local Italian.

    Instead, it’s about a strategic efficiency audit. It’s about spotting the passive “leaks”—lazy cash sitting in zero-interest high-street accounts, outdated insurance policies, or unused premium subscriptions—and consciously redirecting those exact savings straight into your travel fund.

    Should You Continue Working After 60?

    Stepping away from a demanding, 50-hour workweek doesn’t mean you have to stop working entirely. A “portfolio career”—taking on selective, part-time roles or flexible projects—is the perfect halfway house. It keeps your mind sharp, provides a brilliant social outlet, and brings in a highly predictable income stream to fund those spontaneous weekend city breaks.

    Can Your Experience Become a New Income Stream?

    By the time you reach your 60s, you have decades of high-level problem-solving skills and industry networks. Whatever work you have done, you will have skills that businesses are crying out for, experienced, safe hands who can solve problems without needing hand-holding.

    Freelancing or project-based consulting allows you to sell your intellect, not your hours, entirely on your own terms.

    4. Turn a Passion Into a Lifestyle Business

    Whether it’s photography, writing, gardening, or a craft you’ve spent decades refining, the digital world has made it incredibly simple to build a small, highly enjoyable business around a hobby. When you love what you do, it doesn’t feel like work—but the extra income can easily fund your next holiday to Crete or Thailand.

    5. Play the Strategic Waiting Game

    If you are earning an income through consulting or a small business, you might not need to draw your pension benefits immediately. Delaying when you take them can dramatically increase your future guaranteed payouts. For instance, in the UK, deferring your State Pension by just one year boosts your weekly payouts by roughly 5.8% for the rest of your life.

    6. Claim Your Ground (Hidden Allowances & Lost Pots)

    True financial realism means ensuring you aren’t leaving your own money on the table. This means maximising your tax-free ISA allowances, structuring your cash withdrawals efficiently, and actively hunting down “lost” pension pots from previous employers.

    Where to Get Free, Trusted Help

    You don’t have to figure all of this out alone, and you don’t necessarily need to pay a premium for a private financial adviser right out of the gate. There are fantastic, free, and completely impartial resources available in the UK to help you map out your options:

    • Pension Wise (from MoneyHelper): A free, government-backed service specifically for people aged 50 or over. They offer highly clear, specialist telephone or face-to-face appointments to explain your pension options.
    • The MoneyHelper Service: Provides free, unbiased advice on everything from budgeting and savings to trace-a-pension services.
    • Citizens Advice: An invaluable resource for checking if you are entitled to any specific local council tax support or marriage allowances you might have overlooked.

    Of course, if you have a highly complex estate, checking in with a regulated, independent financial adviser (IFA) is always a smart move to get personalised tax planning.

    Let’s Build This Together

    An unexpected pension number is simply a prompt to get creative. It’s an invitation to build a retirement that is far more active, purposeful, and intellectually stimulating than the traditional model.

    Over the coming Wednesdays, we are going to dive deep into each of these areas with highly practical, real-world blueprints.

    ☕ Coffee Break Question

    If an extra £5,000 appeared in your bank account tomorrow, what would you do with it?

    Would you travel, help the family, improve your home, save it for the future, or finally treat yourself to something you’ve always wanted?

    I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments because many of your ideas often inspire future Wednesday Finance Conversations.


    Next Wednesday…

    We’ll carry out The Adventure Fund Audit and see how many of us could fund our next adventure simply by plugging a few quiet financial leaks—without feeling deprived.

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